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motorcycle neighbor guy woke me up!
in my misty state of mind at 1:39 pm in the afternoon, I woke up to a clear KNOCK KNOCK on the door. My eyes are still shut...thinking to myself "should I get it? should I get it? I'm sooooo tired.." then I realized that if I don't get up and answer the door, It could be UPS and I might miss an important package.
Immediately I jumped out of bed and scurried all the way to the door, and then just before I opened the door, I thought briefly it could be the crazy schizo lady that walks around keene barefoot. (Last time she knocked on our door and asked, "Is your mommy home?" and I had no idea how to respond to that so I just shook my head "no..." and she looked at me strangely and asked, "do you speak english?..." LOL and i was just like "WTF" in my head and then she was like "nooo huh?" and she scooted on out of there. lol i probably looked like a mexican boy) Anyways... so i proceeded to open the door with caution and allow only an outlet of no more than 4 inches to open... and to my surprise and even more so to my demise... IS THE MOTORCYCLE NEIGHBOR!
And It looked like he was posing on the wall or something. LOL. anyways I was like... wtfreak.. i'm basically in my loungewear..im practically naked...my hair is seriously all over the place... and i am barely awake... and there he is in his torn jeans and white shirt posing on the wall looking all hard.... i open the door and I don't even say anything... he was just like, "OHH...sorry I didn't mean to wake you up." and the sun is fiercely constricting my pupils and all the speech I can form at the moment are sounds like "huuhhhhh uh hhuhhh" he was just like, "oh i was just wondering if you wanted to learn how to ride... " and immediately im more awake and just said, "ohh..NOT NOW while looking at the beating sun..and.. umm i don't think i can. i kind of promised my friends not to learn to ride cuz it's so dangerous..." and he was just like "ohh... well if you ever want to try...just go upstairs and knock on my door" and I was jsut like, "yeah.. I'll let you know.." cuz in my head, im thinking of my other friend who may want to learn how to ride. I was kinda flusttered and so i said, "OH man. i thought you were the mailman..." and then he was like, "what? ohh.. yeah why are you still sleeping? it's like 1 in the afternoon." and in my head i'm like "O. M. G. crap" but in real life I was jsut like, "ohh i sleep really late..."
iono how the conversation shortly ended after that, I was kind of falling asleep but basically if I wanted to learn how to ride, I just go upstairs.
this incident brings up an important point, my friends keep trying to stress to me. ---->
What are some guys' intentions?
-when they randomly talk to you-when they randomly call you
-when they invite you to things
-etc.
As girls trying not to give the wrong idea, what are we suppose to do? How do we respond?
I never really thought about this stuff ever. I guess that's how I get into so much trouble later on. I am always open and friendly but that can also be an invitation to DANGERR. I don't think motorcycle neighbor is dangerous though. I honestly think he is being nice and helping a sistah outtt but then again, but what are his real intentions? Those thoughts linger in my head as they are being strongly enforced by friends especially after this whole -Fourteen year old- incident. I'll explain in my next blog.
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VROOM! stay classy
i'm eager to read the next blog.
he's probably just crushing on you, but you never know. i usually tend to have horrible outcomes with guyshe is probably very genuine and very nice and only wants to teach everybody how to ride a motorcycle! he has no other intentions besides teaching a stranger to ride a motorcycle.
So, when a guy you're not really friends with goes out of his way to do something, say something, be somewhere, whatever, there are basically 5 options:
1) He's interested.
2) He's REALLY bored.
1) He's interested.
3) He got dared to.
1) He's interested.
You get the picture. The only way the guy will understand that you're not interested is if you tell him, repeatedly to his face, "I am not interested in dating you." As a guy, trust me, we will not get the message otherwise. And even then, some of us won't get the message. Yes. We're that dense.
@LadyLuck7 - hahaha well stay tuned for 14 year old boy story.
@TheChineseEunuch - Shut up
@DigitallyCrazy - thanks joel. i think i got the message.
@phravincegrl - lol, yeah... beating a dead horse after about one sentence... I really shouldn't comment after midnight! Hope everything's well! Good luck with the guy!
I think he is interested in you and wanted an excuse to do something with you. I don't think he goes around offering free lessons to everyone in your building. Guys are almost always able to find reasons to meet up with a girl, even if the intentions are thinly veiled or not.