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Tuesday, 18 August 2009

HOW TO SAY "NO" or in my case, "NO. but thank you"

omgomgomg...
motorcycle neighbor guy woke me up!

in my misty state of mind at 1:39 pm in the afternoon, I woke up to a clear KNOCK KNOCK on the door. My eyes are still shut...thinking to myself "should I get it? should I get it? I'm sooooo tired.." then I realized that if I don't get up and answer the door, It could be UPS and I might miss an important package.

Immediately I jumped out of bed and scurried all the way to the door, and then just before I opened the door, I thought briefly it could be the crazy schizo lady that walks around keene barefoot. (Last time she knocked on our door and asked, "Is your mommy home?" and I had no idea how to respond to that so I just shook my head "no..." and she looked at me strangely and asked, "do you speak english?..." LOL and i was just like "WTF" in my head and then she was like "nooo huh?" and she scooted on out of there. lol i probably looked like a mexican boy) Anyways... so i proceeded to open the door with caution and allow only an outlet of no more than 4 inches to open... and to my surprise and even more so to my demise... IS THE MOTORCYCLE NEIGHBOR!

And It looked like he was posing on the wall or something. LOL. anyways I was like... wtfreak.. i'm basically in my loungewear..im practically naked...my hair is seriously all over the place... and i am barely awake... and there he is in his torn jeans and white shirt posing on the wall looking all hard.... i open the door and I don't even say anything... he was just like, "OHH...sorry I didn't mean to wake you up." and the sun is fiercely constricting my pupils and all the speech I can form at the moment are sounds like "huuhhhhh uh hhuhhh" he was just like, "oh i was just wondering if you wanted to learn how to ride... " and immediately im more awake and just said, "ohh..NOT NOW while looking at the beating sun..and.. umm i don't think i can. i kind of promised my friends not to learn to ride cuz it's so dangerous..." and he was just like "ohh... well if you ever want to try...just go upstairs and knock on my door" and I was jsut like, "yeah.. I'll let you know.." cuz in my head, im thinking of my other friend who may want to learn how to ride. I was kinda flusttered and so i said, "OH man. i thought you were the mailman..." and then he was like, "what? ohh.. yeah why are you still sleeping? it's like 1 in the afternoon." and in my head i'm like "O. M. G. crap" but in real life I was jsut like, "ohh i sleep really late..."

iono how the conversation shortly ended after that, I was kind of falling asleep but basically if I wanted to learn how to ride, I just go upstairs.

this incident brings up an important point, my friends keep trying to stress to me. ---->
What are some guys' intentions?

-when they randomly talk to you
-when they randomly call you
-when they invite you to things
-etc.

As girls trying not to give the wrong idea, what are we suppose to do? How do we respond?

I never really thought about this stuff ever. I guess that's how I get into so much trouble later on. I am always open and friendly but that can also be an invitation to DANGERR. I don't think motorcycle neighbor is dangerous though. I honestly think he is being nice and helping a sistah outtt but then again, but what are his real intentions? Those thoughts linger in my head as they are being strongly enforced by friends especially after this whole -Fourteen year old- incident. I'll explain in my next blog.

Saturday, 15 August 2009

NOT switching sites.

Apart of me wants to switch blogging to blogger or wordpress... unfortunately, xanga has always been my precious and it's too hard to quit. it's too legit. Maybe when I get more famous (haha) I will start a wordpress.

Anyways, I've been MIA this summer for many many reasons. I just couldn't dedicate time to keeping a blog but NOW I can't leave all my memories passing by...
this summer has been very productive and eventful.

This year is suppose to be THE ULTIMATE YEAR (meaning school year but im not in school).
so far, i was able to accomplish some pretty awesome things in my bucket list.

-attend an opera
-go horsebackriding
-attend anime convention (cosplayed)
-get corn rows
-make music video (ooO yes)
-watch video games live performance (FINAL FANTASY!)

Things to look forward to this year
- The Valley w/ Jing
- New York (maybe!)
- California
- Dominican Republic Mission Trip

Today, i watched the Time Travelers Wife with the girls. That movie made me really sad.
I also like the book. I can finally read for fun again! sigh...
My next book to read is THE COLLECTED TALES by NIKOLAI GOGOL.

Today I spoke to my neighbor who lives upstairs. He owns a Honda 1100cc bike and he asked if he could park it in front of our door underneath the stairway. I said it was fine. ACTUALLY, i was like, "NO!" and then I realized oh wait this guy doesn't know my personality... and I was like, "ohh im jk.. yeah sure" Then we had a conversation about motorcycles and I told him how I've always wanted an M1 license but one of my friends died from a motorcycle accident, I didn't want to get one anymore. I'm too scared. But then he said if I ever wanted to learn how to ride the bike, he would teach me.
BUT IM NOT ALLOWED TO.

OH and then today while we were waiting outside the Burleson movie theater... Jing, Evanette, and I were playing with the camera (documenting our lives like we always do) and while Jing and Evanette ran off somewhere,
this fifteen year old looking kid just goes, "Ohh..I bet they take a lot of pictures..." and I was just like "OH NO... why are you talking to me like that? FIFTEEN YEAR OLD GO AWAY!" well i didn't say that outloud but I was definitely thinking it. Instead I followed the advice of my friends after I got into that whole incident with a fourteen year old (featured in next blog) and I just nodded and kept quiet. BUT THEN... he was like "Ohh.. so what movie are you watching today?" And i was like... "ohh.. Time Travelers Wife" and the kid was like, "OHHHH.. yeahhh MEE TOO! I'm sure you can't believe it... a guy like me without a girlfriend watching Time Travelers wife all alone.." and i was just O___O omg. OKAY LITTLE KID. I'M TWENTY THREE FREAKING YEARS OLD. why do i keep attracting these little kids?!
instead i just nodded and smiled and turned away. :) like a good girl.
and then Jing and evanette rushed back and he talked some more to them.

Anyways, LIFE is a highway... i wanna ride it all night long.

Wednesday, 24 June 2009

Old Friendster Testimonials
oh dear gosh, forget I even admitted to having a friendster but yes I once did when it was a huge craze and remember those testimonials?! I was looking through them... I wonder if i changed drastically...

Better paste these so they won't be erased forever...
Gordon
Posted 03/09/2004 4:02 am
One phrase to describe Jenelyn:
vertically challenged! j/k Yeah,
that's mean considering I'm 6'1".
Like I said during her induction into
NHS, Jenelyn may be small, but she has
big ambitions. I don't know how I
first met Jenelyn. She was a loyal
member of SWAT. I also worked with
her in SA (one of the best PR people
ever!) Chorale was awesome. I
remember Knippy would scare her during
rehearsals. Jenelyn is a great
person, and if you don't think so,
you'd better watch your back! (See
Jenelyn, I've got you covered. Haha!)

DoNoVaN
Posted 03/24/2004 12:19 pm
Me and Jenelyn go way way back!! We
used to be playmates back in PI. nah..
jk.. i just met her beginning of this
sem. But jenenlyn is so kewl. She
knows about everything... i guess you
can she very well rounded. she a great
friend she always there to offer
advice and just to check on me. But
she is more than just a friend.. she
my lil sis... lol... can't wait till u
and monica come down next week...
we'll make it fun don't worry

Khamberlie
Posted 11/14/2004 8:43 pm
Jen and I are the youngest cousins of
our family and Im happy to state that she
and I will add the variety in the
seemingly nurse-dominated careers of
our family. Jen is really good with
envisioning an image and realizing that
vision into a sketch book. She's the
artsy type with the science and
mathematical kick, a family trait. ^_^
Even though we have a lot in common, it
is our contrast that makes us truly
indispensable. Her outward enthusiasm
for cars and motorbikes and computers
are unparalleled compare to my lack of
interest for those things but whenever I
need help in any technological detriment
or advice, she's the first person I call. I
call her for the things that I barely know
about that I know she knows about and
vice-a-versa. Jen also tends to
underestimate herself at times but what
she doesn't realize is that although she's
a 'short' person, she has a powerful
presence. Ewww, Lord of the Rings! lol
Blah! O_o Okay Frodo! Love Ya! =P

Dux
Posted 10/12/2006 11:14 am
heard so many good things about you. like being an aspiring physicist and mathematician. a scientist but the same time still a christian. i remember back when you came here to the philippines that you liked the simpsons. don't know if you still do and don't know if the simpsons are still on air. don't get to watch it much anymore...no...make that never since about two years ago. knows how to play basketball. we went to the court once to shoot some hoops and there were these two unknown local guys that were cheering for her (but not that loud thought); it was night time then. hehe. hope we could talk again sometime about science stuff. i think you one of our family members na maintindihan ang mga inaaral ko sa school. keep digging into those books and God bless.

Junel
03/08/2004 3:15 pm

My cousin is so wonderful. My mom died
Christmas Eve and during Jen's
vacation, she spent so much time at my
house. She stayed in bed , on the
computer doing the slide show for the
funeral, for two days...only getting up
to poo, pee and eat. That's
dedication. So..thank you much Liit
(small one in Tagalog). Love you much!

Ryan Cowan
02/27/2004 12:38 pm

Jenelyn jenelyn jenelyn, how can i
describe her? A bush lover? i would
hope not so maybe a person great a
directions? maybe not cuz she got lost
in her own church's parking lot hahaha.
A person with exceeding height? maybe
not today lol. So how should i
describe this girl? well she is a
person who a ton of everything
important. friends, family, morals,
potential bfs, and asperations. She's
into everything and knows quite about
each one. I tend to bond with her more
on politics but she can talk to you
about any and everything. she is
single too! So guys' this is a great
catch. She'll never be a bore to be
with and she's really sensitive and
creative. any guy would be lucky to
have her. with that said PEACE IN THE
MIDDLE EAST. BYE

'Holly'
01/26/2004 3:56 pm

I first met Jenelyn @ Bible Camp in CCF
about 2 or 3 years ago. I remember we
were standing outside the cafe waiting
for it to open. I met her, Kristina,
and Mark. That weekend was suckin
butt, then I met da 3 of them, and
everything got better. We all started
talkin and it turned out that they were
friends with one of my friends. So,
yea. We had lotsa fun that day, but
then we had to go our separate ways.
We saw each other once in a while. BUt
really never really got to bond. But
recently, Jenelyn came here to Texas
with her varsity basketball team. She
was the first person I saw and
greeted. Jenelyn, you're an awesome
person. Hella guys jock you, and
there's no surprise why. You're an
intelligent, smart, not to mention
charming, funny, and according to the
guys "hella cute", person. I'm glad
to have a friend like you and I hope we
could chill more when I get home. And
don't 4get about us crazy asians here
in lil ol' Keene!! Take carez!

Wing Jack
11/17/2003 11:54 am

Omg.. It's Jenelyn.. hehe
she's the bestest bud anyone can ever
have. I remember back in the ghetto
days where we would talk a lot about
anime, drawings, and martial arts.
be careful people, she can kick ya ass
anytime. hehe

Thee Aris
09/12/2003 6:13 am

oh man...... well well well what can i
say about this little one here..... "
GUYS......... SHES DOPE AS HELL TO
HAVE...... SHES THE MOST FUNNEST AND
FUNNIEST PERSON ALIVE ON LAND"
man........ this girl right here......
WOAH ..... shes everything a guy would
want in his girlfriend...... too bad
shes not in every girl..... but awww
well.... i guess that makes her unique
in many ways....... but yea this girl
is SURE FUN TO HANG AROUND WITH.......
she likes to talk abuot many weird
things.... and the best part is that
she likes to say the weirdest things
when shes tired out of her ass.......
but other than that this girl is very
wonderful all around...... i mean....
she dont even need the danm CUTESY-NESS
on her to freakin LO......LIKE her cuz
her personality and her sence of humor
is
ssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
ssoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
oooooooooooOOOOOOOOOOOOOOoooooooooooooOO
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOoooooo
oooooooOOOOOOOOOoooooooooooooo the best
ever...... and hey what do you know....
shes really small and CUTESY...... shes
cute on the outside and really
beautiful on the inside..... geezz what
more can i say about LITTLE J
here....... oh yea she also drives a
freakin MAZDA RX-7-thousand.......
hahah.... man who the hell can get a 7
thousand car..... geezz IMPOSSIBLE
THERE JEN...... shes like MS. CLEVERS
here too..... she thinks of the most
cleverest things alive brought to earth
and ish...... like everything you'll
think of ....... she would make it more
GREATER and ish.... she likes to feel
BIGGER that way...... well....... this
girl can be really small but man.....
she has a really big heart..... from
what i know... she puts alot of effort
when shes in a relationship....
although guys..... BACK OFF, SHES MINE
NOW....... hehehhe jk...... JK (JOY
KILLS) hahaha well well well what do
you know..... anyways..... well i think
this testimonial is pretty damn long
and im just talkin like weird here....
well...... i hope ppl that are reading
this understands what im tryin to tell
you about this wonderful girl
here....... in other words..... "SHE
KICKS ASS" she gets
major "WOOOOEEEWWWWSS" up in here......
well JEN..... im really glad that i met
you ..... and thank you for chillin
with me on the night of SEPT. 11....
and the early ass morning of SEPT.
12.... hehehe i just hope you like
where i toke you..... i tried my best
for you to like it.... but i think i
shall stop this here...... i talk toooo
damn much...... DONT YOU PPL
THINK........ so yea ..... so i guess
ill see you more often JEN....... WELL
BA BYE

Chastity
08/01/2003 12:36 pm

Jenelyn has become my adopted lil sis
thanks to the SGA bigsis/lilsis family
tree..hehe I remember at church back in
the day Jenelyn would always give me
the latest picture she, krisitina, and
jennifer would take hehe and oh who
could forget choir practices..but this
girl always has a smile on her face and
never forgets to say hi to me when i
see her! and of course she's a dope
xanga buddy. ooh yah she's really
pretty too! hehe love ya jenelyn!

Sean fOo
07/30/2003 5:59 am

haha i have too much to say about
jen.. and i'm too lazy to explain it
all right now..but hey if you've known
her lik have then you'll understand
what i mean. i heart this chick soo
much you don't even understaNd! and to
the boys, if you hurt this chick, ima
have to do some ass-kicking because
this chick isn't just a friend, we're
effin' related! white-memorial kiNd!
haha aiite well take it easy jen,
heart you all kiNds! *waving.

Mac
07/29/2003 1:19 am

this gurl...ive known her ever since
she wanted to go to sabbath skewl
early to get sea shells...and i
reallie got to be friends wid her
during jr. high...how can you not be
friends wid her...shes lyke the
friendliest person in the world...this
stupid tree-hugger is one of the ppl i
can truely trust to tell mai deepest
secrets...even wid her morals, she
finds a way to be understandin to
whatever i tell her...she is the
smartest airhead ever! me and jen
always go shoppin for chinky eyes
haha! jenelyn, wen i get mai yellow
motorcycle...ill let you wax and
polish it as much as you
want! ...fine! and ill let you ride it
one time...if yer not too short!

Bethanee
07/28/2003 9:40 pm

hey jen! hey, this girl is such a cool
person... she is very creative and
artistic and stuff... hehe... =P she's
also a good person to talk to when you
have something on your mind or, when
you don't... hehe, she's really fun to
chill with too... heh, yea, i remember
white, good times... =P well, im gonna
miss you next year jen, come visit me!

ViNcE
07/25/2003 7:06 pm

hey jenelyn... wow .. ur actually on
friendster... HAHA anyway... i just
wanted to say that I LUV U!! im so
happy that i got to meet u and the
whole group... u guys are a blast.. ur
bestest bestest lil
friend...hahah...well anyway... heres a
palandrome... is that what it's called
im not sure... im stupid.. im not even
sure if i spelled it write ... well
here ya go.. FRIEND...
F-inds a way to comfort you
R-emembers to say 'hello;' anytime of
the day
I-nspires you in all your endeavors.
E-mbraces you when you are alone
N-ever forgets you
D-ats ME!!!
woohoo....you know u liked it.. well
jenelyn thanx for being such a good
frenz.. and i wish u well in ur
future... i luv u!!!ViNcE
07/25/2003 7:06 pm

OH my goodness and look at what i put for the ABOUT ME section while i was in high school....

About Me:
Major Philosophy in Ninjitsu: KNOW THYSELF..so
here's some things i know...im short . my friends refer
to me as a "mexican man". i collect weapons. i fart all
the time..which is bad cuz im kinda like a
enviormentalist and i polute the air. my dream is to own
a kawasaki ninja and 3rd gen rx-7. i like being
well-rounded so i try new things alot. i have ADD. I LOVE
To CREATE FIRES! im a pyro. I carry 2 lighters with meeh
all the time but i dont' smoke.im not really talented cuz
everyone can do everything i can do and
better so ya. i dislike bullies. I admire people who have
respect for one another. I LOVE MEXICAN FOOD! ..that
may explain the farting. oh and recently i've had a strong
interest in politics. im just weird? ^_-

high school senior portrait lololol aka friendster profile picture
LOL omgoodness i was such a freak. maybe i still am.